Can you Stop Comparing Yourself to People, Forever?

It doesn’t matter who you compare yourself to. You lose.

When you compare yourself to a mentor, to a colleague, to a friend, a myth or movie star, you have to end up either superior or inferior. Or both! The results work against you.

If you stopped to read this, you want to stop comparing yourself to others. Acknowledge you want it — for you.

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